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     <title>Episode 43--X &amp; Y On The Fly--You Can&#8217;t Live With &#8217;Em, And You Can&#8217;t Shoot &#8217;Em</title> 
      
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     <title>Episode 42--X &amp; Y On The Fly--First Dates That Lead To Second Dates</title> 
      
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     <pubDate>Wed, 28 January 2009 12:35:00 CST</pubDate> 
     
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/VvLo-g0sydQ/episode41.mp3" fileSize="44903660" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>What is is about romantic "movie moments" that drive women wild? Better yet, what can guys learn from Hollywood about how to ignite femininity and become exactly the kind of man women desire? Scot and Emily look to uncover all the secrets the motion pictu</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I&#8217;m Scot and she&#8217;s Emily. We&#8217;re the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How&#8217;s that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it&#8217;s a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>What is is about romantic "movie moments" that drive women wild?  Better yet, what can guys learn from Hollywood about how to ignite femininity and become exactly the kind of man women desire?  Scot...&lt;br/&gt;
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     <title>Episode 40--X &amp; Y On The Fly--When Kids Are In The Picture</title> 
      
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     <pubDate>Tue, 11 November 2008 03:58:00 CST</pubDate> 
     
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/QQjGYnBL1O0/episode40.mp3" fileSize="45431897" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Are you a single parent? Or are you dating someone who is? If so, this episode is dedicated to you, along with all couples worldwide who decide to have a baby while attempting to retain their sex life. With their son just about to celebrate his first birt</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I&#8217;m Scot and she&#8217;s Emily. We&#8217;re the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How&#8217;s that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it&#8217;s a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Are you a single parent? Or are you dating someone who is? If so, this episode is dedicated to you, along with all couples worldwide who decide to have a baby while attempting to retain their sex...&lt;br/&gt;
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     <title>Episode 39--X &amp; Y On The Fly--Dealing With Exes...As Opposed To Taking Them Back</title> 
      
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     <pubDate>Mon, 01 September 2008 19:59:00 CDT</pubDate> 
     
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/iNU1jzmmB0o/episode39.mp3" fileSize="53390064" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Should you really try to get your ex back after a breakup? The answer: It depends. You&#8217;re about to find out what it depends exactly. Emily and Scot also talk about some great ways to defend against ever having to worry about the entire issue to begin with</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I&#8217;m Scot and she&#8217;s Emily. We&#8217;re the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How&#8217;s that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it&#8217;s a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Should you really try to get your ex back after a breakup?  The answer: It depends.  You&#8217;re about to find out what it depends  exactly.  Emily and Scot also talk about some great ways to defend...&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;
Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".</description><enclosure url="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/iNU1jzmmB0o/episode39.mp3" length="53390064" type="audio/mpeg" /><feedburner:origEnclosureLink>http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode39.mp3</feedburner:origEnclosureLink></item>
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     <title>Episode 38--X &amp; Y On The Fly--Who Wears The Pants?</title> 
      
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     <pubDate>Wed, 02 July 2008 19:29:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/h30yWr0gNTY/episode38.mp3" fileSize="40036127" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Okay, who really should be calling the shots when it comes to relationship management? The man? How about the woman? Emily and Scot define what &#8217;wearing the pants&#8217; really means, offer some real-world ideas on how to take male/female power struggles off th</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I&#8217;m Scot and she&#8217;s Emily. We&#8217;re the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How&#8217;s that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it&#8217;s a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Okay, who really should be calling the shots when it comes to relationship management?  The man?  How about the woman?  Emily and Scot define what &#8217;wearing the pants&#8217; really means, offer some...&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;
Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".</description><enclosure url="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/h30yWr0gNTY/episode38.mp3" length="40036127" type="audio/mpeg" /><feedburner:origEnclosureLink>http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode38.mp3</feedburner:origEnclosureLink></item> 
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     <title>Episode 37--X &amp; Y On The Fly--Dating Differences When You&#8217;re Younger Vs. Older</title> 
      
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     <pubDate>Sat, 26 April 2008 11:27:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/kllm_cUhMWk/episode37.mp3" fileSize="36358747" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>It has been said that this podcast has something for everyone, and this episode pretty much proves it. What are the disadvantages of dating when you are younger compared to when you are older? And how about the distinct dating advantages of being older? A</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I&#8217;m Scot and she&#8217;s Emily. We&#8217;re the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How&#8217;s that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it&#8217;s a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>It has been said that this podcast has something for everyone, and this episode pretty much proves it.  What are the disadvantages of dating when you are younger compared to when you are older?  And...&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;
Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".</description><enclosure url="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/kllm_cUhMWk/episode37.mp3" length="36358747" type="audio/mpeg" /><feedburner:origEnclosureLink>http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode37.mp3</feedburner:origEnclosureLink></item> 
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     <title>Episode 36--X &amp; Y On The Fly--How To Communicate With The Opposite Sex</title> 
      
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     <pubDate>Tue, 25 March 2008 01:29:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/h4dwUwqvnEk/episode36.mp3" fileSize="46422379" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>OK, get your "decoder rings" on. Emily and Scot are feelin&#8217; decidedly frisky after almost two months without an XYotF show, and ready to help you figure out what on Earth MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) mean by what they say, and what to say to them i</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I&#8217;m Scot and she&#8217;s Emily. We&#8217;re the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How&#8217;s that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it&#8217;s a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>OK, get your "decoder rings" on.  Emily and Scot are feelin&#8217; decidedly frisky after almost two months without an XYotF show, and ready to help you figure out what on Earth MOTOS (Members Of The...&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;
Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".</description><enclosure url="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/h4dwUwqvnEk/episode36.mp3" length="46422379" type="audio/mpeg" /><feedburner:origEnclosureLink>http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode36.mp3</feedburner:origEnclosureLink></item> 
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     <title>Episode 35--X &amp; Y On The Fly--Get Over It: How To Fall Out Of Love</title> 
      
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<itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Tue, 29 January 2008 22:05:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/TUIciqUPs24/episode35.mp3" fileSize="48665350" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Special guest Renee Piane (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/renee). It happens to the best of us. You meet someone (or not even?) and you fall for him or her...hard. Usually, however, unless the person we&#8217;re talking about here is &#8217;The One&#8217;, the relationship is </itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I&#8217;m Scot and she&#8217;s Emily. We&#8217;re the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How&#8217;s that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it&#8217;s a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Special guest Renee Piane (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/renee). It happens to the best of us.  You meet someone (or not even?) and you fall for him or her...hard.  Usually, however, unless the person...&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;
Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".</description><enclosure url="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/TUIciqUPs24/episode35.mp3" length="48665350" type="audio/mpeg" /><feedburner:origEnclosureLink>http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode35.mp3</feedburner:origEnclosureLink></item> 
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     <title>Episode 34--X &amp; Y On The Fly--How To Understand The Opposite Sex</title> 
      
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<itunes:author>Scot and Emily McKay</itunes:author>
     <pubDate>Mon, 03 December 2007 15:47:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/OJIMOI0D1fo/episode34.mp3" fileSize="44182261" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Are you kidding me? Do Emily and Scot really think they can solve &#8217;world peace&#8217; in a single podcast? Actually, understanding MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) might not be as enigmatic as we make it out to be, let alone &#8217;impossible&#8217;. Listen in to this e</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I&#8217;m Scot and she&#8217;s Emily. We&#8217;re the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How&#8217;s that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it&#8217;s a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Are you kidding me?  Do Emily and Scot really think they can solve &#8217;world peace&#8217; in a single podcast?  Actually, understanding MOTOS (Members Of The Opposite Sex) might not be as enigmatic as we make...&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;
Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".</description><enclosure url="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/OJIMOI0D1fo/episode34.mp3" length="44182261" type="audio/mpeg" /><feedburner:origEnclosureLink>http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode34.mp3</feedburner:origEnclosureLink></item> 
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     <title>Episode 33--X &amp; Y On The Fly--Who&#8217;s Got It Harder In The Dating World, Men Or Women?</title> 
      
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     <pubDate>Sun, 22 October 2007 23:32:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/2I2a-0vcIj0/episode33.mp3" fileSize="32442830" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Emily and Scot are back with another mano-a-mano discussion on a truly controversial topic. So which gender has the more difficult time when it comes to dating? Listen in as Scot gets some outside opinions on the matter to start out with. From there, prep</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I&#8217;m Scot and she&#8217;s Emily. We&#8217;re the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How&#8217;s that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it&#8217;s a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Emily and Scot are back with another mano-a-mano discussion on a truly controversial topic.  So which gender has the more difficult time when it comes to dating?  Listen in as Scot gets some outside...&lt;br/&gt;
&lt;br/&gt;
Visit us on the Web at "http://www.relationship-advice.us".</description><enclosure url="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/2I2a-0vcIj0/episode33.mp3" length="32442830" type="audio/mpeg" /><feedburner:origEnclosureLink>http://www.deservewhatyouwant.net/podcasts/episode33.mp3</feedburner:origEnclosureLink></item> 
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     <title>Episode 32--X &amp; Y On The Fly--An Unsettling Discussion About Settling</title> 
      
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     <pubDate>Wed, 12 September 2007 05:18:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
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     <title>Episode 31--X &amp; Y On The Fly--"I&#8217;m Just Not Feeling It Anymore"</title> 
      
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     <pubDate>Tue, 07 August 2007 13:40:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/c2FLxAXkZ8s/episode31.mp3" fileSize="42560629" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Special Guest David Wygant (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/wygant). Why is it so many people can&#8217;t stay attracted to someone who used to seem so hot to them? And how can you prevent this from happening? Scot and Emily have heard one too many stories from list</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I&#8217;m Scot and she&#8217;s Emily. We&#8217;re the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How&#8217;s that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it&#8217;s a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Special Guest David Wygant (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/wygant).  Why is it so many people can&#8217;t stay attracted to someone who used to seem so hot to them?  And how can you prevent this from...&lt;br/&gt;
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     <title>Episode 30--X &amp; Y On The Fly--What Does A &#8217;Happy Relationship&#8217; Look Like?</title> 
      
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     <pubDate>Tue, 10 July 2007 16:43:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/T_RJHjauBHw/episode30.mp3" fileSize="36246361" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Special Guests Jon and Laurie Weiss (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/happy). We all know that men and women are supposed to be &#8217;happy&#8217; together. But what does that ? Emily and Scot look at the big picture, welcoming some gold-plated advice from a pair of guest</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I&#8217;m Scot and she&#8217;s Emily. We&#8217;re the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How&#8217;s that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it&#8217;s a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Special Guests Jon and Laurie Weiss (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/happy).  We all know that men and women are supposed to be &#8217;happy&#8217; together.  But what does that ?  Emily and Scot look at the big...&lt;br/&gt;
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     <title>Episode 29--X &amp; Y On The Fly--You&#8217;ve Attracted One...Now What?</title> 
      
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     <pubDate>Mon, 18 June 2007 23:54:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/c5gixQfy8FM/episode29.mp3" fileSize="46784907" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Special Guest Marie Forleo (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/marie). There&#8217;s a lot of talk about how to create attraction. But what is there to remember about maintaining that attraction once you actually HAVE someone in your life? Discover the hidden mistakes </itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I&#8217;m Scot and she&#8217;s Emily. We&#8217;re the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How&#8217;s that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it&#8217;s a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Special Guest Marie Forleo (www.deservewhatyouwant.com/marie).  There&#8217;s a lot of talk about how to create attraction.  But what is there to remember about maintaining that attraction once you...&lt;br/&gt;
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     <title>Episode 28--X &amp; Y On The Fly--The War Of The Roses</title> 
      
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     <pubDate>Mon, 28 May 2007 04:37:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
<author>info@xandycommunications.net (Scot and Emily McKay)</author><media:content url="http://feedproxy.google.com/~r/XYOnTheFly/~5/nVYawT4xwXc/episode28.mp3" fileSize="41056757" type="audio/mpeg" /><itunes:explicit>no</itunes:explicit><itunes:subtitle>Finally...something the &#8217;perfectly imperfect&#8217; co-hosts don&#8217;t exactly agree on. Emily thinks that men should give women LOTS of flowers, early and often in a relationship. Scot, while not exactly against giving women flowers altogether, has a completely di</itunes:subtitle><itunes:summary>***DIAL-A-CAST On Your Cell Phone: 289-466-5002*** I&#8217;m Scot and she&#8217;s Emily. We&#8217;re the dating strategists at X&amp;Y Communications. Join us for the most action-packed dating podcast on planet Earth. We hit the ground running every show with solid dating tips from the unique (and often hilarious) perspective of BOTH genders. Now featuring special guests and on-the-street interviews. Less fluff = good stuff. And get this...we never resort to getting trashy. Squeaky clean and a class act all the way. How&#8217;s that for unique? Grab a listen! And be sure to get in on our weekly newsletter at . Podcasts almost always follow the topic of our most recent newsletter, so it&#8217;s a lot of fun to get a head start on the next episode. We both also welcome your feedback and program ideas at: or OR NOW VIA VOICEMAIL at 210-362-4400. Call or write to us! We appreciate reviews on iTunes and votes on Podcast Alley. Thank you to everyone for your terrific support of this show. SPECIAL NOTE: The first ten episodes of this podcast have been retired. Please contact us directly if you are interested in one of the earlier shows in particular.</itunes:summary><itunes:keywords>dating,sex,seduction,attraction,relationships,marriage,flirting,pickup,boyfriend,girlfriend,confidence,approaching</itunes:keywords><description>Finally...something the &#8217;perfectly imperfect&#8217; co-hosts don&#8217;t exactly agree on.  Emily thinks that men should give women LOTS of flowers, early and often in a relationship.  Scot, while not exactly...&lt;br/&gt;
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     <pubDate>Wed, 28 June 2006 04:29:00 CDT</pubDate> 
      
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